safety tips

updated September 2026

chat first

Get to know people in the app before sharing your number or socials.

meet in public

First meetups should be in busy public places like cafes, parks or group hangouts.

tell a friend

Let someone know where you are going, who you are meeting and when you expect to be back.

get yourself there

Arrange your own transport so you can leave whenever you want.

never send money

No real friend will ask you for money, gift cards or bank details. Report anyone who does.

trust your gut

If something feels off, leave. You can block and report someone at any time. In an emergency call 119 (Sri Lanka) or 999 (UK).